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The Room Still Wasn’t Right — Until I Added the Sunflowers
How are you? I hope you’re well. This week I finally finished something I’d been chipping away at for weeks – brightening our sitting room.
New curtains were up. I’d repainted two old wicker chairs sage green. I’d made the cushion covers, one set patchwork, one floral with a gingham trim. I’d swapped the pictures on the wall for bright, modern florals. Decluttered, changed the rug. Every piece, in place.
And it still wasn’t right. Something was missing.
Then yesterday I put a vase of sunflowers on the table.
That was it. That was the final piece that lifted the room. It went from nice to somewhere that lifted me, somewhere that made me smile and, well, just, feel happy. And then I thought – that’s not really about the room.
You can get everything technically right. The curtains hung, the chairs painted, the frame of a life arranged exactly the way it should be. And it can still be missing the one thing that makes it feel like yours. Not more sorted. More alive.
I’ve been doing a lot of sorting lately – clearing out, taking care of everyone, getting things in order, making sure the structure underneath me and my family is solid. And don’t get me wrong, structure truly matters. We all need that foundation, that security we can build on. But structure doesn’t give you the spark. It doesn’t give you that feeling of aliveness which is unique to you, that makes you you.
That addition to your life can be small. For me, this week, it was a vase of fresh flowers on the table. A choice, made on purpose, to bring a gentle vibrancy into a quiet, intentional space.
This week’s reflection:
Where have you done all the “right” things – and forgotten the sunflowers?
Have a think about:
- Your home
- Your body
- Your work
- You, plainly, underneath all of it
Pick one. You don’t need to overhaul it. You just need the fresh thing, not the renovation. The flowers, not the whole room done again.
Freshness isn’t decoration. It’s how you know you’re still living your life and not just maintaining it.
With love and best wishes always,
Susy
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